Tuesday, 9 December 2014

MISSING YOU


  
                             


I always wished I had the kind of bestfriend I could just text a code word to and she’d know exactly how to respond; the friend who would say, “Let’s just hang out this weekend” and I would want nothing more than uninterrupted time with her; the friend who hears when I am sick and shows up with a bowl of soup; the friend who seemingly never tires of listening to you rant about X (insert whatever or whoever you feel like you’re always worried about!!); the friend who includes me in everything; whispers secrets to me that she tells no one else; and the one who just always seems to want to be with me the same amount of time that I want to be with her.
When we’re feeling that little nagging angst of loneliness– it’s for her that we want.  It’s for the fantasy best friend that we know would be the Thelma to our Louise, the laughter to our joke and even the fork to spoon.  She would be the finisher of my sentences, the reader of my minds, and the affirmer of my heart.  Our time together would be effortless, easy, safe, and comfortable.
She walks towards your angry self and she scolds you. You were frustrated and angry, but then her scolding relaxes you. The only friend she is who can bring your anger down. You trust her like you have never been betrayed. Someone whom you like the back of your hand. Someone with whom you want to spend your whole day with and never regretted. Someone with whom you can form a well understood, synchronized partnership above all differences. People stay jealous but friendship is above all jealousy and just jumps over the dumb peoples stupid brain. She understand you better than you ever knew yourself. The perfect hug in the right time and the correct method to stop you from entering the wrong path. Closer than your girlfriend she is(some super lucky people have the same gf & best friend), loves you more than your lover and cares for you almost as your mother. You would hate to see her go, it would pull out all you had, from you. Never will you be able to tolerate it and you are confident that no matter what happens, hoMiw stuff change , circumstances alter, how many fights and arguments you had,  we guys will stick by.  Because that’s what friendship is and your best friend is worth it!! I proudly say that I love my best friend and no one can betray this fact
Friendship is NOT how much we think we like each other; it’s how much of a pattern two people have in practicing the positive behaviors of friendship. For in the world of friendship… horses can become unicorns.  
Best friend stick together till the end and they are like straight that will never bend…..
I admit that I had that kind of friend in my life but due to some unavoidable circumstances she is not with me any more and we can never be together also. We even stopped talking or talk just twice a year( that hurts a lot!!)
But apart from all these I miss her a lot and always wish that she could back in my life….
I know whenever you read this you will call me for sure...

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